Art Of Approaching

Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed - How To Pick Up Women
by Joseph Matthews

Having trouble picking up women?  Have no fear!  All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!

Want to start picking up women, but have no idea how to do so?

Most of your friends probably don't know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn't know (and lord knows your mom couldn't tell you)! Even the dating "experts" that you see in the media wouldn't be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did - they'd never be able to appear on TV again! (Let's face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).

Understand:  Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to get started right away, you're going to need some practical advice that really works!  Luckily, you've found this article!  So let's get to it...

First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to be "male model" good looking.

This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.

So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.

Another thing is - you DON'T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I've ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn't even own a car!  (And the ones that do don't drive anything special!)

Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they actually like you!  And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn't that right?

Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.

Look - No matter what obstacle you think you have when it comes to getting a girl to like you, having a great personality trumps them all!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences.  But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You don't have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

No matter what - if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women.  The more you do it, the better you'll get!

When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies.  But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow.  Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.

The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain experience!

When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!

(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking."  I'm saying you need to "look good."  There is a big difference between the two.  You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)

Try and dress nicely - wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you.  If you're hopeless when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.

Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it.  However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance).  Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you'll feel!

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way.  Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don't let it pass you by!

Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.

Here's the structure:

Find a girl.

Approach and meet her.

Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.